Friday, October 29, 2004

 

Something off my back

I'm sitting here at work, and I just gotta get something off my back or else I'll be bummed all day. Yesterday I was tod that we'd have a charity collection box out all next week to support the victims of the Niigata earthquake. I was asked if I might say a few words about it. Absolutely. I spoke, rather fast cuz I was nervous, but nonetheless I think I made my point. I called upon the school and my students to open their hearts to the victims of the earthquake. I then pulled out a 5000 Yen bill and put it in the box.
Now those who know me know I don't shy away from charity, you know raise money for cancer and so on. 5000 Yen doesn't seem like much when you consider the thousands of people living outside, in cars or in gyms. It doesn't seem like much when you consider that thousands are still without electricty, hot or even running water. Some of the folks are living on 1 onigiri a day. Many people have died, including the wife and three-year old daughter of a family of 4. 5000 Yen doesn't seem like much.
After I spoke, my principal came out, dropped 1000 Yen in the box, then also talked about the earthquake. Great, 1000 Yen. If that's what you feel like donating, then that's great. Except a couple things bothered me. He spoke of how foreigners have big hearts and are more likely to donate to charity, but that Japanese people were weak at donating to charity. What's that, an excuse for only donating 1000 Yen? That's like me saying that Toyota made cars have a history of breaking down, so I'm not gonna take my Toyota on the road trip. Simply doesn't make sense. He seemed to say to the students, "it's ok if you don't donate so much, after all you are Japanese". Then after coming back to the staff room, he mentioned about how I had donated 5000 Yen. We're having a staff drinking party tonight, and it will cost 5000 Yen a person. I told this to him. My logic was if I can spend 5000 Yen on a drinking party, then surely I could spend 5000 Yen for the people of Niigata. On those lines, if someone can lose 20000-30000 Yen a couple times a week, then surely they could afford 5000 Yen in donations. My principal said that both he and the vice-principal much prefer drinking parties, then my principal admitted that his 1000 Yen was a pity donation. Then they started laughing. I'm sure people in Niigata don't need pity donattions. I don't know, sometimes I really don't get this country or the people who live here. Are they wrong or am I just being preachy? I just realised that I'll probably be in a badmood for the rest of the day.

Comments:
I don't know if this is the same or not but when I was in the Philippines, I found that there is a sense of shame when it came to gifts. For example, when I went to a birthday party everyone would bring gifts. So far... normal. But the person would not open gifts. You know how it is in the west... we open our gifts in front of everyone. Not there. They wait until everyone leaves and then they'll open them up in private. But I think in Asia, generally, they have a sense of shame to let others know what they are giving or in this case, donating. There are going to be students who can't donate Y5,000. I would guess that the guy was lowering the amount so that those who would not be donating as much wouldn't feel as embarassed. He tried to save face for them. Just my two cents. --DB
 
he probably was worried that students couldnt put in that much money in the box..so he only put in 1000 to show the students that any amount is okay. but the staff room conversation wasn't very cool either...oh well...we'll never figure out what our kocho senseis are thinking..

-rusty
 
Yeah I agree that he had to show to the kids that any amount was ok...I just don't think he should have hid behind the excuse of being Japanese. I definitely think the power of the human spirit should prevail over any questions of nationality.Whose to say now that some kids won't donate anything, mimicking kocho sensei by saying, "well I'm Japanese"? It's not right.
 
I have to say I agree with Russ on this one,my friend. I think it was more about letting the kids know it´s ok to donate whatever they can rather than being cheap,and maybe that dude´s comments were just to piss you off rather than showing a general concept of Japanese views on charity. But oh well,what do I know, I live in Tortilla Land anyway.

Putting those 5000 Yen in the box says a lot about you,pendejo. And I´m sure everyone noticed it.Good on ya!
 
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